There is no answer to this question. It completely depends on the person. If you are talking strictly for the 1/4 mile, then it gets easier to decide. I have a 3.08 and am going to be going to 3.31 in the future. With a 0.68 overdrive and stock tire size, that puts me at about 1830 RPM going 62 MPH. I would imagine that I wouldn't really feel the difference in traffic as much as I would when really giving it, which is exactly what I want. I have a 302 under the hood so it is a different animal entirely, and the best they came with was a 3.08 axle with the manual cars. The 4.6 cars either came with a 2.73 or a 3.27 with the manual cars. One way to tell is look at your door sticker. Under the axle section, an M will denote a 2.73, a Z will denote a 3.08, and an E will denote a 3.27. If your car is stock, I would suggest no more than a 3.27/3.31 if you want to drive it everyday. It keeps your RPM at an acceptable level when cruising, and gives good acceleration. If you are coming from smaller cars with smaller engines where you need to keep the RPM up just to keep up with traffic, you may feel differently.
One thing I would like to mention that almost everybody neglects is that you are not using 5th gear to go fast. It is too big a gap. So you are using 1st to 4th. Depending on how fast you like going, gears can cut your fun short really quick. Personally, I like to get up to about 100 MPH before letting off, but my rule of thumb is I like to be able to get up to 120 MPH without shifting to 5th or holding the RPM at an uncomfortable level. With stock size tires in my case (3.08), I am at 4850 RPM at 120 MPH. For you, with a 2.73 axle, you will be at 4300 RPM. If you have a 3.27 axle, you will be at 5150 RPM. Our engines, whether 5.0 or 4.6, can handle this RPM, but do you really want to hold it there? Especially a 5.0. They don't make any power there.
Since you said you are going to be cruising at 80 to 90 MPH, I wouldn't change anything if you have a 3.27 axle. Your RPM is already pretty high.
Just fruit for thought.