I was not aware the SN bolts are TTY, I've always re-used mine. And I've had the heads of multiple times. I know mine are not, just from looking at thread pitch.
I do like to use the copper sealing spray as well on HG jobs. I use the standard Fel-Pro 9333-PT1. But I've used cheaper before, the heads come off at least once per year.
Quick rundown:
1. Drain coolant. I like to remove radiator and distributor for more room.
2. Strip/remove upper intake and remove exhaust manifold bolts.
3. Remove serp-belt. Remove alternator and bracket, position out of the way.
4. Remove p/s pump with bracket, a PITA but pump/bracket need removed together. The last bolt is in the way of the p/s pump, but you can get to it with a open-end wrench turning like 1/4" at a time.
5. Remove injector/sensor harness, injectors with rail, and lower intake. Remove valve covers, rockers and pushrods (mark and re-install in same location). Loosen all head bolts.
6. Remove each head, careful to keep the head dowels, sometimes they stick to the heads, so put them back in the block before re-assembly.
Clean everything, check mating surfaces, get all liquid out of upper head bolt holes with q-tip or similar.
7. Gaskets down (make sure arrow or 'front' is positioned correct), and place heads down. Dowels will keep them positioned for bolts.
8. Install and torque bolts according to spec, don't forget bolt sequence is crucial.
9. Install and torque valvetrain, this is a little tricky. You can only truly torque a rocker when valve is all the way up.
10. Position motor at TDC for timing purpose (if distributor is removed).
11. Re-install valve covers, intake, all brackets, distributor, exhaust bolts, belt, radiator, etc.
12. Install distributor at TDC. Time with light.
The only head bolt that's important is the passenger lower on #5, it has a ground strap. But I also have a set of bolts from a Fox, so a true SN set may not have this.
Found this article with pics ...
http://302budgetbuild.com/install-cylinder-heads-small-block-ford-302-5-0-gt40p-heads/