Most HID systems use only one element that is spring-loaded in an “out” position. When highbeams are selected, the electromagnet retracts the element about 3/8” which changes the focus of the headlamp causing a highbeam pattern. As for the harness, the systems I have used came with a harness that connects both HID elements to the car’s headlight system. The harness connects to the battery and ground. A connector plugs into one of the headlight connectors to get the highbeam or lowbeam signal. With headlights off, the relay does not actuate the circuit that supplies the voltage to the HID system. A seperate circuit in the harness gets power when the highbeams are on which in turn activates the electromagnet in the HID element changing the lamp focus to highbeam. Whenever the headlights are on, the HID elements remain on only changing the focus when highbeams are selected.