The only thing that feeds them power would be the positive lead coming off the battery, which if I take the fuse out, it turns them off, put it back in, and a minute later, they come on by themselves
Didn't you get a relay with the kit?
the batt. pwr should feed the relay and the hot wire from the h/l sw is what activates the relay.
Ck your wiring instructions again. somethings ass backwards.