I understand what you are saying...sorry for going off I just get alittle touchy with this subject because now days it seens like people are anti big families...I hope you understandVenom351R said:Bigdaddy said:Please don't take this the wrong way, I'm not trying to start an argument but "my situation" would be even harder than having one kid. Sorry it just gets under my skin when people act like having kids is the end of your life, and by the way I also work between 70 and 80 hours a week on top of haveing our 8th baby on the way....but I admit it is a major change going from none to one, I suppose onse you have had a couple you get better at fitting in the extra things you like to do...so I do understand what your saying. :thumb:Venom351R said:Bigdaddy said:Well my wife likes to work on cars with me, it doesn't happen very often but she does like cars. Anything in life will take time away from hobbies. And yes, it is as simple as tweaking your schedule. I may not be the best person to talk to about what mods need to be done and when but this subject I do know about.Venom351R said:so when do you spend time w/ the wife and sleep?
Having a kid = less money and time to do car related stuff its just that simple. Its not a matter of just a minor tweak of your daily schedule and still be able to do as much as you did before
Well Im glad that works out good for your but your situation does not = everyone else's situation and how it would work out for them either.
I know what your saying and Its good that you can manage your time w/ 7 and #8 on the way but the fact is that some people have no free time w/ just one, that's the only point I was trying to make. Every situation is different, every ones work schedules and available free time is different.