how cheap can you get the felpro gaskets for? personally i like the Ford OE ones better, the blue film that the felpro gaskets have deteriorates once the car starts circulating coolant. im sure it wont hurt the engine, just never liked that about those gaskets. out here, they cost about $50 each at autozone, so $100 for both, or get the FRPP headswap kit for $115 at either Summit or Jegs. the kit comes with new OE exhaust manifold gaskets, new head gaskets, new head bolts, and a new dip stick. im assuming you have the ARP head studs, so just sell the headbolts in the kit and recoup some of your money, and then you still have the exhaust manifold gaskets and dipstick tube you can use.
oh, and for your block being .20 over, it doesnt matter with the OE or any OE style/spec gasket, as they are usually oversized anyways.
and PI vs NPI gaskets, there is no difference.