Glad things went so smooth for you man. That's something that just never seems to happen to me. I went from feeling fantastic, and knowing in every inch of my body that my ex will be back to where I'm at today. Her rebounds truck is sitting 50ft from my window in my room right now. It took everything I had to continue walking in the house when I got home instead of going to the house he's at and breaking him in half. I'm twice his size and have the unfortunate blackout rage. It runs in my family and it's only ever happened to me once in my life. I do not want it happening again so I talked it out with people that I know and the anger subdued enough for me to just put music on and try to fall asleep. Ontop of this all one of my ex crushes text me a few days ago saying that I was the one she let get away. And then tonight she posted some quote that I liked and she text me telling me her and her boyfriend broke up. ****ing bizarre shit dude.
Moral of my story is be very thankful shit went down peacefully for you bro. That's one thing I'd truly kill to have happen for a change. Something to go down peacefully. If you've got that kind of luck now you're gonna have great success finding the one for you. And won't have to work nearly as hard as myself. Keep working on that positivity your showing. It'll take you far in life, and not only with women. Career, house, car.. It affects everything man. It was definitely a great idea waiting that extra time to call her but I personally would have only done one hour. But hey every situation is different and you handled your's wonderfully. So maybe taking my advice isn't a good idea because I just have a bad vibe or something lol idk.. Good job man keep it up
Well I think that it went smooth because I wanted it to go smooth, I made it happen that way. I was polite, and professional lol. Also, because she expected me to beg and that's not my style. Dang man that's some serious stuff, I can tell you really do want her back. And when that sort of anger happens its best to talk it out with someone, you always feel relieved. Music is also a good remedy. Just by talking it out with her like grown ups I felt so relieved even though she was the subject. Hmm, girls always do that; they run back to the good guy when usually its too late. But why is she just an excrush? Maybe just hook up with her? But you might end up getting hurt if she goes back to that guy again because girls always pull that crap too. Could be something to try or think about though.
Yeah well my attitude and mind set has changed so I take situations like that with a grain of salt and just try and make the best of everything. Always look at the bright side. But yeah it went down peacefully, and I'm glad. We still text each other dumb stuff and leave comments on IG for each other but its not weird nor awkward. Just friend type stuff, so I'd say it went really well. Funny thing is I was just in her college town on Sunday with a friend and 2 chicks messing around in the snow! (doesn't snow in the valley lol). And I didn't tell her I was going nor messaged her about it but she saw a couple pics and vids from it on IG and she got jelly! lol! 2 girls we were with were pretty sexy too lol.
But you've gotta make it go down peacefully man, say the right things and think before you speak! and most importantly think rationally and logically. But it is different when you know a person a lot more than me and this girl have been talking; there's more feelings involved in your situation. But see it as a new opportunity and look for the positives. Yeah I'm hoping this new found mentality will help me in all situations, I know its working on me at my job; been there a little over a month and I've already gotten a few mentionable recognitions
I just wish it was a career job not just my part time gig while I try and get school done.
You're advice has been great man! I really do appreciate it! And I mean that! Yeah, I went too far on the time it took to call her but honestly I didn't care as much for her anymore. I did let her know that it was just a crush at that point, and I was beginning to like her but that it wasn't that serious. She said she hoped I didn't just become friends with her friends because of her, and I told her, "Don't flatter yourself, they're all really nice kids." hahaha this girl thought I was gonna bend over for her and nope not me, not the new me.
So I didn't read through it all but honestly if a girl goes for you over the car you drive or the money you have - Dont pick her up to begin with! Sure when I hear your car go by my head will turn but your car doesn't tell me if you are a good guy or a d-bag. IMO the 'cedes and lexus owners tend to be d-bags and I'm short to give them the time of day. (then again, I'm not your typical girl...)If you drive a sexy ass 'muscle car' mustang or mopar or whatever, bonus points for you but that's not getting my pants off. It's all about the person that gets out of that car. I'm more impressed how you drive it and if you built it. I need a guy that can handle having a girl that can possibly out drive, out build and maybe even go faster than him. That's not easy to come by lol
Yeah I've always been told that but I don't have money nor a really nice car so I skip over that fact since I don't attract those women lol. Yeah, just like I wouldn't want a girl just because of her money, I actually dislike girls with money because I don't like that type of attitude they usually all carry. That's awesome in your case though! That's not something normal and that's way cool! Shoot I'd be okay being out driven by a sexy female.
The main thing with girls , women is you need to be funny and keep them entertained . Girls love to laugh and smile . If you can make her laugh easily it's game on from there . I know this from most my guy friends there to shy or nervous to even be there selves or say anything . I have no problem going up to random girls in the bar and starting conversation or anywhere for that matter . I always talk to cute girls I see in my day to day outings .
We've got a winner! That's the most important thing I have learned with women to date. I myself am funny in person naturally and women always see that and laugh at everything I say. A lot of guys have that potential but are too shy and thus they don't act themselves. I am that way but am cutting it out and talking to any body lol. Introducing myself to women like a boss. Haha damn that's some balls though to just talk to any cute girl you see; that's confidence! I'm not quite there yet.
^ How I date so many girls right here ^
If you don't talk to them, ya sure as hell ain't sliding anything inside.
LOL best post so far! hahahaha. You can't find out unless you try, and unless you try you'll never know. And if you get rejected at least you can look on the bright side that you tried like a boss. Can't be liked by everybody either.