I just got mine, just need to install. I went with the black alcantara with orange stitching. No center stripe. no extra padding and no thumb grips.
The top pic is Jeremy's car and that is dark charcoal interior for reference. If you're planning on going with black interior, you will probably have to dye all of it. Black is harder to find and mostly only in earlier cars with bad cup holders.
The padded photo is actually ttocs I believe? It look super comfy, but it doesn't look right in my personal opinion. I like the first photo of Jeremy's cobra the best.
I've also heard padding and thumb grips make it hard to install.